AT THE JUNCTION; FUNCTIONING OR FRUSTRATED?

The red light in a car's dashboard is an indicator that the car has some other problem or problems. Working with the red light (jiggling, shaking, banging) or even replacing it will not solve the automobile's real problem. You have to go deeper than that. The red light indicates that the car needs oil or water, or that the brake needs to be released. Solve these problems and the red light will go out automatically. Ignore these problems, and the red light will continue to glow until the automobile is ruined.

That's exactly what happens in many marriages especially where sex is concerned. Sexual problems are often like the red warning light on the dashboard of a car. Most of them are not just a matter of technique, style or even frequency. You can engage in the physical act as a couple but both of you know that something is missing. The act has become hollow, empty, meaningless, and unfulfilling. The real problem is a host of other problems between the husband and the wife. Solve those problems, and it may well be that the sexual problems will be automatically corrected.

Issues of unresolved guilt from our past, myths we have believed about sex, ignorance about our differences as male and female and ignorance of what the Bible has to say about this very important subject have greatly affected many a couples sex-life. What was meant to be an enjoyable and fulfilling thing in marriage has instead become something to be endured and a source of frustration.

For more on how you can move from frustration to fulfillment on this important aspect of your marriage, join us this Saturday,7th of July, from 9am to 5pm at the IBS-Biblika as we openly answer the question, "At the junction, functioning or frustrated?" Charges are Kshs.3,000 only per couple payable through mpesa no. 0722-307185 Come and hear what your Parents didn't tell you about sex that the Bible has to tell you. For more information call Grace on 0729-237766