LADIES ARE YOU GIVING FAR MORE THAN YOU ARE RECEIVING?

In working with many ladies in relationships, we find ourselves wondering why they seem to act desperate or needy in those relationships. Even for some of those married ladies struggling in their marriages, looking back they realize some of the mistakes they made while dating that have led them to where they are now. You see ladies get married hoping that the guy will change, so they bend backwards to accommodate him and allow certain things to happen that later on come to haunt them. What they don't realize is that contrary to what they think or hope for, guys tend to remain the same if not get worse after saying "I Do".

So to help those ladies that are currently in a dating avoid such pitfalls, we are asking you to do this quiz to check if you are giving far more than you are receiving in your dating relationship. 

1. Do you feel guilty when you say no, or do you say no and then second-guess yourself? 

2. Do you often try to tell your partner that you want to be treated with respect? 

                               

3. Do you find yourself bartering or negotiating for what you want or need?      

4. Do you often pass up sleep or the need for personal time to meet his needs?       

5. Do you regularly see him on short notice or when it is convenient for him?      

6. Do you find that you repeat what you’ve asked for as though he didn’t hear it the first time?

      

 7. After a fight, are you always the first one to contact him or apologize?      

      

8. Do you find you are much more doting and affectionate than he is?   

    

9. Do you often feel depleted after being with him?   

    

10. Do you constantly want more attention or reassurance?   

    

 If you’ve answered yes to five or more of these ten questions, you are most likely giving far more than you are receiving in your relationship.