DO I STILL JAZZ YOU?

Last Saturday at IBS-Biblica we had a ball. We want to believe many marriages were rejuvenated as Gracie challenged the couples to ask themselves this question, "Do I still jazz you?" Emphasis here on the word STILL. After that we jazzed each other into the night as we danced with each other till midnight. It was lovely.

I believe like us, you once jazzed each other but with time, with the clatters of life coming in between us, our marriages have run out of wine. We need a miracle for the ordinary relationship (water) to be turned into wine once again. We want to still be jazzed with each other; To enjoy each other, not merely enduring each other; To stop being frustrated with each other and start fascinating each other all over again.

We need to look back and see the height from which we have fallen (fallen out of love), and repent, turn around and begin to do the things we did at first. The fact that we did these things during our courtship or in our early years of marriage is proof that yes, we can still jazz each other.

 That is romance, and that is what will spice up our marriages. So be courageous enough and dare to ask your spouse, "Do I still jazz you?" Then go the extra-mile in asking him/her, "What can I do to jazz you? What do I need to stop doing in order to jazz you? What do I need to continue doing to continue jazzing you? And finally, what do I need to do to start jazzing you once again?

Have a jazzing week.

Who said it takes a lot of cash to be romantic? It really doesn't. All it takes is a little effort and creativity from you.” - Anonymous